Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Why "Born Again"?

This is a phrase that has been discussed for the last 2000 years, not always in the best light. What exactly does it mean? And do I need to be?

John 3:3-8
3. Jesus answered and said to him, "Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God." 4. Nicodemus said to Him, "How can a man be born when he is old? He cannot enter a second time into his mother's womb and be born, can he?" 5. Jesus answered, "Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. 6. "That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. 7. "Do not marvel that I said to you, 'You must be born again.' 8. "The wind blows where it wishes and you hear the sound of it, but do not know where it comes from and where it is going; so is everyone who is born of the Spirit."

In the days when Jesus walked here on earth there were two types of people. Those who knew God and those that didn't. In those days the Jews were the people God had revealed Himself to. Jews and Gentiles: the Jews were God's chosen people, all the others were Gentiles. It was a pretty closed society.
So Nicodemus found himself as one of the "chosen"; one of the elite. But things were changing. No more would it be possible to "get to the promised land" (find salvation) in his current state of mind. Jesus was on the scene and it was all going to change. They were transitioning from the "Old Testament" covenant into the "New Testament".

Nicodemus was a man with a vast amount of knowledge, yet he did not understand what Jesus was saying about being "born again". He was a very intelligent, learned man, yet he could not grasp the concept. "Go back up into your mother's womb? What?... I'm missing something here!"

Nicodemus was used to one set of rules for his living and thinking. These were a very rigid and unforgiving set of rules, complicated and meticulous to say the least. God had not wanted that, but the rabbis and teachers of that time had taken the 10 Commandments and added on hundreds of complex and rigid "rules" by which the Jewish people were to live their daily lives, such as not carrying things on the sabbath, giving 1/10 of every measly "spice", oh, and then there were the concepts of divorce. Just say three times in public that you are "divorced" and "Bam! Out you go Mam!" ouch!

Jesus came to do away with all that, to offer a way to live and worship that was freeing. We heard a little of it when we looked at the Samaritan woman. At that time there was one place to worship and if you didn't do that, then you were considered an outcast. God wants our belief system "on track", and in line with the Word of God, but how grateful I am that He does not demand rigidity and separatism. His nature is forgiving and kind. He is not bound up with rules, and making people "pay" for their mistakes. Back in Old Testament times you lived by the rules or you were "out"!

Some people might think that Christianity is one big "clique", but it's just the opposite, or at least it should be. Jesus is all about bringing people to Him. He wants to tear down the walls of separatism and reach out to those who do not know Him. If you have seen Christian people that are elitist, I'm sorry, that's not who God is. It's relationship, not "religion". Recently, someone said to me that they had been told that if you were not a member of a certain "denomination" then you were not saved. Oops, that's going to be a problem for a whole lot of us out there. Jesus never wanted denominations, so somehow I don't think that is from God.

In Malachi 4:6, one of the last verses in the Old Testament, it states that God wants to turn the hearts of the children back to the fathers, and in this case "Father". God was tired of all the distraction, petty rules and regulations. He wanted to get back to basics. That's what Jesus was and is about; getting back to the basics.

So now on to the basics. John 3:16-18  says: (This is Jesus speaking about Himself)

"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him. Whoever believes in Him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already, because he has not believed in the Name of God's one and only Son."

It's really pretty simple, God had a plan way back in the garden of Eden. Man messed up. God gave rules. Those rules didn't work with Man. God said OK, then let's do this My way again. Man, you need to believe in Me and we need a "relationship", not a set of rules. That's where we are today. We need "relationship", and that relationship consists of turning to God and realizing that we can't do it on our own. We are incapable of living by a set of "rules". We sin, we mess up, we fall short. So we admit it, and ask God for His forgiveness and salvation, through acknowledging Him and realizing that God sent His Son to pay the debt "for us". Asking for God to move into our hearts and lives, and turning it over to Him.

Please don't think I'm some sort of anarchist, someone that does not believe in rules. Because we all need guidelines and boundaries. Without them it's too easy to wander off into dangerous territory. I just believe we cannot let anything take the place of our knowing God and our "relationship", our connection, with Him.

So Jesus said, you must be "born again". New life in Christ. A "do-over". That's what Mankind needed. Access to a fresh start. That's what I needed. I was so bound up in rules and trying to "conform" that I missed out on the sweet relationship with Jesus. I was so caught up on what others might think of me, or what was expected of me that I missed the basic thing... really knowing who Jesus is. I let everyone else's "opinion" supersede what God was trying to say to me. He's good, and I mean really good. He takes us as we are and then is so patient. He has a way that's easier than what mankind wants to dictate.

Jesus says in Matthew 11:28-30

28: Come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am gentle and humble in heart: and you will find rest for your souls. 30. For my yoke [is] easy, and my burden is light.

Jesus is referencing a yoke here, like a yoke on oxen. It means guidelines, and His way of doing things. Hook up with Him. Let Him be the lead. He will shoulder your burdens if you get in "relationship". He'll carry it for us. That's what being "Born Again" is about.

Be Blessed,


  1. This is all so true and so easy. And we do not know how easy until we make that step. I was a divorced single parent when someone explained this very thing to me. I was raised in a Lutheran church along with many aunts, uncles, and cousins and had never heard this teaching until I was an adult and not even attending a church. The burdens did slip away and I did receive rest, literally. I went from laying awake nights worrying about everything one day to sleeping without interruption. God is good! Thanks for the reminder and I am enjoying your new bible study.

  2. Just wanted to let you know I'm here listening and taking notes. Your explanation was simple, but so is God's promise.

  3. Good morning Sweet Debra!
    I was just finishing my quiet time and wanted to stop in and ask for everyones prayers...I am getting so worn down with all the goings on around here...getting a little thin.
    I have two family members in Critical Care (in Texas) And because of the store event in 10 days...I can't go to them.
    Please add my name and my family to your prayer lists...Thank you Debra for todays Bible study...I will leave a comment tomorrow after I do my study...blessings, Donna

  4. Thanks for reminding us! We all need to keep our eyes on Jesus and keep his teachings in our hearts.
    Smiles and Blessings,
    Nancy C

  5. My husband and I were talking last night, and I told him that even though I let the Lord lead me in writing these posts, that they are still difficult in that it is hard to translate to a page what I have learned by "osmosis" for my whole life. Hard to articulate and put down, thoughts, feelings, and things I have learned over the years. When I sat down to write this yesterday I was completely lost as to what to say. I said, Father you have to do this. (I say that everytime I write, but I really did this time) I know there are so many deep levels of this, that I just touched the surface.
    I have friends that had been in church their whole lives that never heard the plan of salvation, and that was amazing to me.
    I want this to be relevant to everyone, mature Christian, and those that maybe have not met the Lord yet. Broad spectrum. You all just do not know how much I appreciate your input. Just knowing you are out there is a huge encouragement.
    Big Hugs and Blessings

  6. You did a great job laying out the Good News.

    As you stated it all boils down to relationship. Starting life over every day new with Him by your side. He will never loves us anymore than he does right now. Once we give our lives into His care, confess our sins and ask for forgiveness then we are born a new creation in the spirit...we are in closer proximity to hear His whispers and still small voice guiding us through life on the path to our salvation. Our eyes are open to see signs and our ears hear with a heart of hope and trust in creator.
    Good food for the soul Debra.


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